Self Trust & Validation

You weren’t born doubting yourself. Self-trust erodes slowly through subtle invalidation, repeated gaslighting, or years of being praised only when you overextend. This category is here to help you return to yourself. These courses gently guide you through the work of unlearning second-guessing, softening your urge to explain, and building a relationship with yourself that doesn’t require performance. You’ll explore emotional boundaries with your own thoughts, ways to move through discomfort without rushing, and tools to begin choosing yourself even when it feels unfamiliar. This is not about self-esteem hype. It’s about rebuilding quiet credibility with your own heart.

Courses

  • This lesson is about breaking the habit of doubting your own thoughts, feelings, and choices. You’ll explore where that self-doubt started whether it came from being dismissed, gaslit, or just always questioned. You’ll learn how to notice when you're spiraling into overthinking and how to gently redirect yourself back to what you already know deep down. It’s about trusting that your first instinct is often the most honest one.

  • This lesson helps you understand why you feel the urge to over-explain, justify, or prove yourself to people even when you know what you said, what you meant, and why you made the choice you did. You’ll dig into the fear of being misunderstood and the pressure to be seen as “good” or “reasonable.” By the end, you’ll start to feel what it’s like to let your clarity speak for itself without the long backstory.

  • Discomfort is part of growth, but many of us were never taught how to stay with it without shutting down, running away, or blaming ourselves. This lesson walks you through what it looks like to hold space for hard feelings like guilt, fear, shame, or confusion without making them your enemy. You’ll learn that trusting yourself doesn’t mean feeling good all the time. It means staying present with yourself even when it’s hard.